Therapy for Men & Veterans Coronado | Navy & Military Support
I provide therapy for men and veterans in Coronado, California, supporting individuals impacted by military service, leadership stress, and major life transitions. I work with veterans and military-connected men navigating trauma, emotional regulation challenges, and identity shifts shaped by years of responsibility and service. My role within the Coronado community is to offer grounded, evidence-based therapy that is steady, respectful, and practical.
Coronado has a strong military presence, with many active duty service members and veterans connected to nearby bases and long-standing military institutions. The close-knit nature of the community, combined with high expectations and visibility, can make it difficult for men to acknowledge stress or seek support. This local environment often shapes how pressure, burnout, and emotional strain accumulate quietly over time.
Many men and veterans in Coronado struggle with emotional suppression, unresolved trauma, and the challenge of maintaining balance while carrying ongoing responsibility. Clients often choose to work with me because I understand the unique pressures of military-connected life in this area and offer therapy that is calm, direct, and grounded. My approach focuses on emotional regulation, clarity, and stability without adding more pressure or overwhelm.
Here’s what’s included
Step 1: Grounded Intake & Shared Mapping
We start with a collaborative intake session where we slow down together, map what’s happening in your body and life, and name the systems, histories, and power dynamics that have shaped how you respond. This isn’t a checkbox assessment, it’s a Freirean dialogue where your story is treated as real knowledge, not a problem to be fixed.
Step 2: Freirean Praxis Sessions (Reflection + Action)
In ongoing 1:1 sessions, we practice praxis: we reflect critically on your patterns, triggers, and environments, and then translate that insight into small, concrete actions that honor your values and your nervous system. You’ll leave each session with 1–3 grounded experiments or practices, no perfectionism, no overwhelm, just doable steps toward more dignity, choice, and ease.
Step 3: Integration, Reclaiming, and Future Alignment
As we work, we regularly pause to reflect on what’s shifting: how you’re feeling in your body, how your relationships and boundaries are changing, and what freedom looks like for you now. Together, we refine your practices, celebrate what’s working, and craft a sustainable way of living and leading that’s aligned with your values, so the transformation isn’t just a session experience, but part of your everyday life.
Explore my services
Therapy for Veterans
READ MOREVeteran therapy in Coronado is for service members living within a close-knit, military-connected community where expectations remain high. Many veterans struggle quietly with trauma exposure, emotional shut-down, anxiety, or anger while maintaining composure in visible roles. Over time, clients often feel more grounded and emotionally steady. Internal pressure eases, reactions soften, and it becomes easier to step out of constant readiness. Sessions explore how military culture and service experiences continue shaping emotional patterns. Therapy is offered in-person or virtually in a grounded, respectful way. For veterans seeking local support near you in Coronado, the focus is on safety, regulation, and balance.
Speaking & Organizational Consulting
READ MOREIn Coronado, many organizations carry strong cultures of duty and performance. That can make it difficult to address strain until it becomes a problem.
This service creates space to name what is not working and to design clearer agreements. The work supports leadership that does not rely on silent overfunctioning to keep things running.
Military Transition Counseling
READ MOREStaying surrounded by Navy and military culture can make transition feel partial rather than complete. Even after leaving a formal role, expectations around readiness, composure, and performance often stay in place internally.
Military transition counseling helps you create separation between who you had to be in service and who you are now allowed to become. We begin by stabilizing daily life so your nervous system is not operating in constant evaluation mode. Calm comes first because it allows you to make choices without pressure or overcontrol.
As the work deepens, we focus on boundaries, identity, and leadership outside military structure. We name what parts of service shaped you in useful ways and where those same patterns now create strain. The goal is to apply your leadership skills intentionally instead of automatically.
I bring this work as a U.S. Army veteran and licensed clinical social worker who understands the weight of service culture from the inside. This is a collaborative process, not a top down one. Together, we build clear routines and agreements that hold beyond the session so your transition supports steadiness, self trust, and leadership without constant readiness.
Trauma Therapy for Veterans
READ MORELiving in a place shaped by Navy culture can keep trauma responses active without you noticing. In Coronado, many veterans remain surrounded by expectations of readiness, composure, and reliability, even after leaving formal service roles.
Trauma therapy begins by recognizing that your nervous system adapted to real demands, not imagined ones. We do not push you to revisit experiences before there is enough stability. We focus first on reducing constant alertness so your system can experience safety in the present.
As the work progresses, we look at how trauma shows up in daily life, including relationships, emotional expression, and decision making. We identify where vigilance, shutdown, or overfunctioning still run automatically and create practical ways to introduce more choice and flexibility.
This work is grounded in dialogue and shared power. As a U.S. Army veteran and licensed clinical social worker, I work with you to translate awareness into routines and supports that hold outside the session. Trauma therapy here is about building steadiness and leadership over your own life, not just managing symptoms.
PTSD treatment for Veterans
READ MORELiving in a place where military culture is still present can make PTSD feel like something you just carry quietly. Around Coronado, many veterans stay composed and reliable while their nervous system remains on guard, ready to respond even when nothing is actively wrong.
PTSD treatment here is not about convincing yourself that you are safe. It is about helping your body experience safety again. We begin by stabilizing the present so your system can step out of constant monitoring. Calm is built through predictable routines, regulation, and pacing, not through pressure to “move on.”
As the work continues, we focus on how PTSD affects authority, trust, and emotional range. We look at where vigilance, shutdown, or control still operate automatically and create practical supports that allow for clearer choice and steadier responses in daily life.
Anxiety Therapy for Veterans
READ MOREBeing surrounded by military culture can keep anxiety active even after your role has changed. In Coronado, VA related stress often shows up as tight control, frustration with systems, and a feeling that you have to stay composed while tracking everything yourself.
This anxiety makes sense. When support feels inconsistent, your nervous system learns that vigilance is the safest option. Over time, that constant readiness affects sleep, patience, and your ability to fully disengage, even during downtime.
Anxiety therapy here focuses on lowering that baseline tension. We work on building predictable structure, clarifying what you are actually responsible for, and reducing the need to mentally check and recheck just to feel secure.
Depression Therapy for Veterans
READ MOREIf you are a veteran living in Coronado, depression may show up as emotional numbness, low energy, or the sense that you are just getting through the day rather than living it.
This kind of depression often develops when strength and reliability have been expected of you for a long time. You may be used to holding things together without much space to process loss of structure, identity shifts, or accumulated exhaustion. Over time, that weight dulls motivation and direction.
Depression therapy here does not start by asking you to feel differently. We begin by restoring stability in daily life so your system is no longer operating on depletion alone. Energy, rhythm, and decision making come before motivation or meaning.
As we work together, we look at how depression has affected your sense of self, purpose, and agency. The goal is to help you reconnect with your life in a way that feels steady and self directed, rather than driven by obligation or endurance alone.
Anger Therapy for Veterans
READ MOREBeing surrounded by military culture can keep anger patterns active. In Coronado, anger control counseling focuses on helping you slow the moment between trigger and response. The goal is not to eliminate anger, but to use it as information so you can set boundaries, communicate clearly, and stay aligned with your values.
Sex and Intimacy Therapy for Men
READ MOREIf you live in Coronado, military culture can make sexual concerns feel like something you should handle privately. You may assume the issue is personal or temporary while frustration continues to build.
Sex therapy offers a direct, respectful space to address sexual functioning, desire, and connection without judgment. We work on helping your nervous system experience safety again so intimacy does not feel like another performance demand.
I serve veterans in Coronado.
Veterans in Coronado often connect with me from areas near Naval Base Coronado and surrounding military housing. I also serve veterans living in nearby communities such as Imperial Beach, Downtown San Diego, and the greater South Bay area.
“Richard’s work reflects both intellectual depth and genuine care. He brings clarity, discipline, and empathy to every role, making him an exceptional clinician and consultant.”
— Academic & Clinical Reference
“Richard combines clinical skill with deep leadership. He brings clarity, compassion, and structure to complex environments, empowering individuals and families to move forward with dignity and accountability.”
— Keith D. Washington, LCSW, DCSW
“Richard’s leadership in high-pressure military systems stood out immediately. His ability to balance clinical judgment, teamwork, and mission readiness makes him a trusted guide in complex, real-world settings.”
— Senior Military Supervisor
“What sets Richard apart is his ability to connect systems, people, and purpose. He leads with integrity, cultural awareness, and a deep respect for lived experience.”
— Community Mental Health Colleague
“Richard creates spaces where growth feels possible. His approach is thoughtful, structured, and human—especially for those navigating leadership, identity, and high-stakes environments.”
— Professional Peer
“Richard’s work reflects both intellectual depth and genuine care. He brings clarity, discipline, and empathy to every role, making him an exceptional clinician and consultant.”
— Academic & Clinical Reference
“Richard combines clinical skill with deep leadership. He brings clarity, compassion, and structure to complex environments, empowering individuals and families to move forward with dignity and accountability.”
— Keith D. Washington, LCSW, DCSW
Testimonials

Hello, I’m Richard De La Garza, a veteran therapist offering trauma, PTSD, and anxiety therapy for military connected adults.
I’m Richard De La Garza, a veteran mental health therapist supporting veterans in Coronado. With direct experience in military systems, I offer therapy for PTSD, anxiety, anger, and identity shifts related to service and life after the uniform.
Frequently Asked Questions
How does this work?
We start with a complimentary 15‑minute consultation to see whether we’re a good fit and to answer any initial questions. If we decide to work together, we’ll schedule your first full session and complete intake forms through a secure online portal.
In our sessions, we meet virtually (or in person if you’re in San Diego, CA and choose that option). We’ll slow down, map what’s going on in your life and body, and set goals together rather than imposing a one‑size‑fits‑all plan.
I draw from several approaches—including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), trauma‑informed care, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), strength‑based and compassion‑based practices—while centering intersectionality and cultural context. That means we look not only at your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, but also at how identity, history, and systems shape your experience. Each session is a mix of reflection and concrete practices, so you leave with 1–3 grounded steps to try between sessions.
Therapy is typically weekly or bi‑weekly at first, and we’ll regularly check in about how it’s going, what’s shifting, and whether the frequency or focus needs to be adjusted.
Can I use insurance?
I do not accept insurance at this time. All services are self‑pay, and payment is due at the time of service.
Many clients choose to use HSA/FSA funds or speak with their insurance provider about any out‑of‑network benefits that might apply. I’m happy to answer questions about fees and payment so you can make an informed decision before beginning.
You also have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate of the expected costs of your services, in line with the No Surprises Act.
What technology do I need?
Virtual sessions are held through a secure, HIPAA‑compliant video platform.
You’ll need:
- A stable internet connection
- A smartphone, tablet, or computer with a camera and microphone
- A private, quiet space where you feel comfortable speaking openly
- Headphones or earbuds (recommended for privacy and sound quality)
Before each session, you’ll receive a link by email; you simply click it at your appointment time—no special software is required beyond an up‑to‑date browser.
- A stable internet connection
What happens if I need to cancel?
Life happens, and sometimes you need to reschedule. I ask for at least 24 hours’ notice if you need to cancel or change an appointment.
- Cancellations or reschedules made more than 24 hours in advance: no fee.
- Cancellations, reschedules, or no‑shows within 24 hours of your appointment: you will be responsible for the full session fee.
This policy helps protect the time I set aside for you and ensures that appointments are available for others who may be waiting. If you’re unsure whether you’ll be able to attend, please reach out as soon as you can so we can explore options.
- Cancellations or reschedules made more than 24 hours in advance: no fee.
Good Faith Estimate
What is a Good Faith Estimate?
If you are paying out of pocket (not using insurance), you have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate (GFE) outlining the expected cost of your therapy.
A Good Faith Estimate includes:
- Describes the type of services we’re planning (for example, weekly 50-minute sessions)
- Outlines the estimated total cost over a period of time (for example, 3–6 months)
- Is provided in writing before we begin ongoing therapy
This is an estimate, not a contract. If we adjust your treatment plan—such as meeting more or less often—I will update the estimate to reflect our new agreement.
Under the No Surprises Act, if your actual charges are significantly higher than the estimate, you may have the right to dispute the bill. This law is designed to promote transparency, so you can make informed decisions about your care.
